Talks to Be Avoided In (spoiled) a Relationship
By Marius Gherghinescu
Relationships are generally based on compromise but also on free choice. Since men and women think differently, act differently and have fights in different ways, things can be nasty when thinking of a relationship and confusion appears. It is possible that you do not know issues about women, but you can try to push the right button so your problems can get solved.
Avoiding the following problems, you can spare loss of time and energy with fights.
1. Her style
Not only that she has the right to make sure you look presentable but it is also her responsibility. Just because she does it for you this does not mean you should do the same. As a matter of fact you need to avoid negative observation. Comments like “Isn’t this jacket too short, tight, not appropriate?” must be forbidden. Yes, its double compromise but who says life is fair?
When it comes to you, you did wrong when you said about her shoes that they look funny, so apologize quickly and say they are in fact great.
2. The way she looks
No woman can make spaghetti sauce as your mother, but under no circumstance compare this particular sauce with the one made by your girlfriend. Another rule would be not to make comments related to her cooking, even if you find the food tasteless, eat it and smile.
3. Your and her ex-lovers
Nothing good comes out of remembering about your/her ex. Maybe this person was the best for her, maybe he cheated on her, but talking nasty about her past will make her responding. It is her past, her mistakes, forget about it. Besides, do not compare her with your ex-girlfriend, it is like calling her name in intimate moments - You are on a mined field. In case you did a mistake, apologize.
4. Her money
Her money is not your money, so if she wants to spend a fortune on new jeans, do not interfere. She does not understand your obsession with gadgets either and even so she does not make comments when you spend 500$ on a mobile phone.
5. Her friends
If you have nothing to say about her friends, do not say it. So, even if you observed that her girlfriend is very sexy and pretty…don’t say it.
Marius Gherghinescu
MyLove Agency Dating Service
The People Who Are Spoiled And The Things They Get Away With
Face To Face With the Other Woman in His Life
By Marius Gherghinescu
You had suspicions that there is another woman but you have the proof now…evidence is clear: he hides from you, comes late all the time finding all sorts of excuses, his skin smells unusual, and his gestures lack the tenderness and passion that they used to have.
You are more furious and desperate to find out why he did this to you, how many times until now? You want to know if this is his first cheating and more than that, you wish to see her, that woman that entered your relationship without her knowing it. You want to know how she looks like, if she is prettier, smarter, more self-assured, if she deserves him more. And yes, you want to face her, to see the woman who took your man and made you miserable, who is now happy having him, his attention, tenderness and passion. You are mad that she stole these things from you and she had no right to do so.
But if you think well, this is his fault. He is the one who assured you of his love, he is the one that made future plans, the one that said he would like lots of children that resemble you. He is the one that, contrary to his promises, cheated on you and let another woman in his life.
Maybe she doesn’t even know that you exist, maybe she loves him as much as you do. It would be childish to have a confrontation. What could you say to him? Nothing…maybe what he does to you will repeat itself with her. Anyway, what you will say and do will not change his deed and will not make you happier, you will not feel liberated. The bitter taste of such an experience is not easily passed over and will not vanish away even if you confront him.
Marius Gherghinescu
MyLove Agency Dating Service
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